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| Baby at 14 weeks. Arriving April 23, 2011 |
I can't believe the day is finally here that I announce that soon my husband and I will add to our list of roles "daddy" and "mommy." I am in the middle of my 15th week of pregnancy, almost to the fourth month marker, and everything is going just as planned. The heartbeat this morning was beating fast and strong and we were lucky enough to get a sneak peak ultrasound last week courtesy our brother-in-law (the equine surgeon--why picture above says "Equine A").
I am due April 23, 2011--the Saturday before Easter. I found out I was pregnant on August 13th--Friday the 13th--and the day before my birthday. This also happened to be three days before my original due date and I couldn't help but feel that I was finally coming full-circle after a rough year. I've debated whether or not to talk publicly about the miscarriage--and I certainly don't want to make a big deal of it--but it played a big part in my life over the past year. I had a blighted ovum and Scott and I found out during our first ultrasound appointment right after the new year. We held our breath as the technician poked around my empty gestational sac and muttered apologies. I had a D&C a few weeks later and over the next months a series of ovarian cysts. It was a stressful and depressing time, but we had to have faith that when it was our turn, when the time was right, we would be blessed with another pregnancy.
The pregnancy has been a smooth one. A little bit of sickness, but mostly your garden variety. The last time I was "sick sick" was the night of the readathon when I probably pushed my body a little more than it was used to (ie staying up until 11 rather than 9:30). Most of my yickiness has been associated with smells or things that gross me out enough to make me gag then dry heave. Now that I'm passed it (mostly) all I can do is laugh a little. I used to be of the camp that morning sickness was all in the woman's mind. Now I believe differently.
We will find out the sex in a few weeks but haven't started discussing names seriously. I'm one of those that has had girl names picked out since I was little--never thinking that my husband might not like them! For now, we call the little guy Baby Billy Bob. Somewhat of an inside joke, but a joke that I hope ends promptly when B3 is born!
So, if you've heard me mention food 10 times a day on Twitter or talk about how I'm holding up my pants (or husband's jeans) with rubberbands, now you know why. And if I disappear for a few days or don't get around as quickly, it's because I'm flat out exhausted. But I'm doing the best I can--trying to figure it all out now so I don't have to disappear in six months!!
And if you're thinking that little Baby Billy Bob looks like an alien with a handgun, we think that, too. Edited Note: other more appropriate items in comments below include bottle, e-reader, and book. I blame the handgun comment on us being Texan. ;)
A very excited mommy to be,

Congratulations! I'm happy to hear about the big news. I hope all goes smoothly :)
ReplyDeleteTrish! Darling! Let me be the first to congratulate you and your husband on the wonderful news. I am so happy for you (three)! Keep us posted on how you feel, and may you never have the craving for Big Macs that I did in my last trimester. (Easily, I could eat two in one sitting. One for me, one for Daniel inside.)
ReplyDeleteI was first, before Amy's comment snuck in. :)
I couldn't be more excited for you!!! Congratulations! Don't forget to start those monthly baby-bulge photos. We MUST see! :)
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! Congratulations! I wish you all the best for a healthy and beautiful pregnancy :)
ReplyDeleteOh dear. I meant to say baby-bump! LOL Sorry about that. :)
ReplyDeleteI can't tell you how happy and excited I am for you and Scott, my dear :D I can't even imagine how difficult this year must have been, but I'm so glad things seem to have come full circle at last. To Baby Billy Bob! :D
ReplyDeleteSo VERY happy for you and Scott! Many congratulations on this wonderful news!
ReplyDeleteI was wondering about the "Equine" verbiage on the picture, so am glad that you cleared that mystery up. :) Thought that perhaps I was forgetting something from those u/s days ...
And, is it just me, or does Baby Billy Bob look like he/she is holding an e-reader? :)
Oh, one more thing ... your blog name is now absolutely even more perfect. May the love, laughter and insanity be yours in full force with this new little one. :)
ReplyDeleteCongrats!! I got the chills when I read that! What an exciting chapter in your life! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm so thrilled for you!
ReplyDeleteOh, congratulations!!! Hope it continues to go smoothly.
ReplyDeleteHow exciting -- congratulations to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteWow, congrats Trish! That's so great!!
ReplyDeleteLove the "equine A" thing! That will be a priceless treasure for B3 when he/she is grown. :)
ReplyDeleteYou know I just couldn't be happier for you and Scott, dear friend!!!! Enjoy every second, sweetie! *hugs hugs hugs*
Wonderful news. Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteOh big huge congrats!!! I'm so glad things are on the looking up side for you now, Trish. Absolutely all best.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!
ReplyDelete"And if you're thinking that little Baby Billy Bob looks like an alien with a handgun, we think that, too."
lol!
Congratulations Trish! I was going to say the baby looked like he/she was holding a banana or a bottle, but I guess living in Texas a gun is probably more appropriate! hehehe
ReplyDeleteReally happy for you and can't wait to she what name you pick out! :)
Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to u both!
ReplyDeleteAm a newish follower and not sure I have commented here before. :)
carol
Congratulations! I'm sorry to hear about the trouble you endured with the last pregnancy. I hope this one goes smoothly for you. Hooray for the second trimester, which is generally so much easier. You should get a bit of your energy back.
ReplyDeleteCongrats!!! That's great news!
ReplyDeleteI had early miscarriages before I had my daughter so I know how nerve wracking it can be. But now she's 8 so it all worked out just fine.
Enjoy being pregnant because it goes by so fast!
Oh yay Trish!!! I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles this past year, so sending lots of marvelous thoughts your way. And you'll have an April baby!!! We're the best. ;)
ReplyDeleteHoly crap, Trish, congratulations! I am so excited for you. I know it's a whirlwind so far, but it get's even crazier after the birth. My little boy just turned 6 weeks yesterday. It feels like just the other day we were announcing my wife's pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteBe prepared for one of the greatest joys of your life.
Also, everyone is going to give this awesome advice and tell you what it's like the first few weeks with baby. Just smile and nod. Odds are, your experience is going to be different. Plus, it's tough to really comprehend it until you are going through it. I just now understand what some friends were telling me back in March.
CRAZY!
Congrats again.
Pax
I am so excited by this! Are you planning to load her on a bike and bring her to Sturgis this year?? (or him)
ReplyDeleteOh congratulations! I'm so excited for you! I can only wish good things as you move forward. :)
ReplyDeleteMany Congratulations to you and Scott! Alien with a handgun, indeed, and some serious arm muscle, too!
ReplyDeleteAwwwww, congratulations!! How exciting!! I can kind of see the alien thing, but the handgun is pretty tough to miss :-)
ReplyDeleteI was due April 26 with emmory. She was born may1! So happy for you!!!!!! Any weird cravings? And you must post pic of your sweet baby bump! Hooray!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteCan I tell you what I love most about that picture? Your little baby looks like it's got a bottle in there with him. :D I love seeing ultrasound pics!!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I'm glad it's all going smoothly so far.
ReplyDeleteWhat awesome news! Baby Billy Bob is a cutie already!
ReplyDeleteEveryone - Thank you thank you for your comments of support and congratulations! We couldn't be more excited.
ReplyDeleteAnd as I get further along, I will be posting bump pictures (or "bulge" as Joy so lovingly referred to it as). I'm just barely showing--look more like I've had too many burgers rather than a baby. ;) I'm still refusing to make the jump to maternity clothing!!
No strange cravings yet. Though I could go for a Route-44 Sonic Limeade about now...
I craved citrus - especially lemon and lime. Such wonderful news. Congrats Trish!
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness!!!!!!! I am SO excited for you! Congratulations!!! Yay!!
ReplyDeleteThis is so wonderful! And I love the picture - your baby is ALREADY adorable! Congratulations!!!
ReplyDeleteTRISH!!! Congratulations!!! I'm so happy for all of you.
ReplyDelete"Equine A"? Too funny ... will have to show that to my radiologist hubby!
Congratulations Trish! What an exciting time for you and Scott! I hope everything goes smoothly.
ReplyDeleteMeghan @ Medieval Bookworm
Congrats Trish! So glad to hear everything has gone smoothly so far. Hoping the remaining 5 1/2 months go just as smoothly!
ReplyDeleteThat is glorious news, Trish! (((HUGS))) And you got a great ultrasound image. Mine always looked more like Rorschach Ink Blots than babies. :-D
ReplyDeleteLOL Thanks for bringing up my blooper, Trish. :D I knew there was something wrong with "that word" but didn't figure it out until I reread it after publication. At least I figured it out and corrected it. That counts for something, doesn't it? I can't wait to see your baby-bump. See . . . I got down now. :)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! This is such an exciting time for you! I hope you enjoy it all. I look forward to seeing your journey into motherhood :-)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! :)
ReplyDeleteOh Trish, Congratulations!!! {Hugs} I'm so so happy for you and Scott! You've to keep us updated about your pregnancy! Meanwhile, enjoy and have lots of good rest! :))
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to both of you! Enjoy your pregnancy; it really is a wonderful thing!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, Trish! How exciting for you and your husband! It's so fun thinking up names, isn't it? Especially the ones you would never use. LOL We have a nickname for our little one too-Gertie. It's a stand in name until she's born and we announce her real name.
ReplyDeleteIt really does look like Baby Billy Bob is holding a handgun. LOL I have an ultrasound phone in which my girl looks like a baby elephant head. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has a bit of an imagination when looking at those photos.
So, so, so, so (so, so) excited for you guys! But you already knew that. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm right there with you on the handgun; that was the first thought that popped into my mind! I completely understand about the miscarriage and the anxiety that comes with it. I am in the same boat you were in right now, and it is definitely a stressful time.
ReplyDeleteYay! This is awesome news and I can't wait to hear more baby news as you go through your pregnancy. Miscarriages are hard...unfortunately I know exactly what you've gone through. It makes me all the more happy that you are blessed with this new life that is growing inside of you. Congratulations again!!!!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats!!!
ReplyDeleteLOL at the handgun comment. =)
So happy for you! Congrats! =D
ReplyDeleteOh, yay! Congratulations!! :-)
ReplyDeleteTRISH!! OMG! HOW COULD you KEEP this FROM ME!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYah! I am yelling, I am super excited for youuuuuuuuuuu!
I am so sorry about the miscarraige, but Allis well know, i m asure this lil one is going to fill up your days and nights (YO!) and you will never have time to remember that bad times :)
YOU know my delivery date was Apr 25th, 2010 but Aarya came on Apr. 12th, 2010. They say if it is a boy, it comes a lil earlier than the due date...
i know i m babbling but this is so EXCITING.
I am praying for you, and please take care of yourself, sleep really well... keep a good posture - it is important so that you don't get backaches. Eat well, nutritious for the baby - almonds, dry fruits, dates (those one a day should give you enough Iron ) - ok i know you already got so much advice, but i can;t help myself LOL! Don't forget Spinach and all leafy things. Also some meat and stuff...!
Oh well... I can't wait for your baby... and I hope you have a non-stressful time.. enjoy your pregnancy! Love Love Love ..loads of it coming your way...Take care.. :) :) Let me know, please!
CONGRATULATIONS to you and your husband, Trish!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad that things are going well and the baby's heartbeat is strong.
My daughter is due April 22 and I will become a grandma for the first time. I am not quite excited about this new title.
I think the photo of Baby Billy Bob is just beautiful :)
Congrats! That's awesome news, and I'm so happy for both of you.
ReplyDeleteI think you should name that baby "Keel IV" Congratulations by the way. :)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Trish! I'm very happy for you and your husband and that tiny little baby coming your way because he'll have an awesome mommy!
ReplyDeleteP.S.
Glad you liked my tips, I hope some will help.
Congratulations! Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well and no worries on the blog thing. You have more important things to do :)
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the time you have now to just be hubby and wife...it's about to change to the three of you :)
It looks like he's holding a gun, to me, but then I live in the Deep South and there are about a half-dozen gun theft articles in the paper, every day (plus, we have neighbors whose relatives buried stolen guns in their yard . . . lovely). It's probably a Kindle, though.
ReplyDeleteCute little horsie, either way! Best wishes to both of you for a safe and healthy pregnancy!!! I'm thrilled for you!
Congratulations to you both!
ReplyDeleteOh Trish, I literally have tears in my eyes, I was so hoping that this would be the news you hinted at last week! Congratulations, congratulations, a million congratulations. I wish you a very boring and uneventful pregnancy. :-)
ReplyDeleteP.S. If you ever want to chat about anything, pregnancy is still recent enough for me, so I'm game!
Congratulations!
ReplyDeleteOh, what great news! Congratulations! :D
ReplyDeleteObviously, I've been away from blogging again for awhile since I'm just now seeing that you are pregnant. Congratulations! (I like the handgun comment, but I grew up in AZ where everybody has a gun rack in the truck.)
ReplyDelete:o)
Yes, I know that I suck at posting comments, but I just started Google Reader and I am trying to get used to getting on to see what is new with the blogs I follow.
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for you guys. You are right, this is your time, and things happen when they are supposed to.
I can't wait to have a baby niece/nephew that is from my actual family. I know that I am an Aunt, but I will feel more like one once B3 is born.
I am itching to go shopping, so let me know the sex the second they tell you. I will be expecting a text message mid way through the sonogram.
Love, Brooke
All the best for the rest of your pregnancy! It will go by so fast.
ReplyDeleteNames are so hard - good luck on agreeing.
Congratulations! I'm holding my 2+ week old little guy as I type this. What a fun ride you are in for. I also had a miscarriage first. I haven't really talked about it on my blog, but do plan a post about it. Too often women don't talk about it and then it happens to you and you feel alone.
ReplyDeleteI hope your pregnancy goes well. You are lucky about the morning sickness. I was throwing up into my sixth month!
Dear Sweet Trini
ReplyDeleteMy eyes are welled with tears reading all the wishes from your blog friends. You are very blessed to have so much love!
I am so blessed to have you as a daughter, and I cannot WAIT to have my little grandbaby in my arms! What a wonderful time for you and Scott in your lives. It's so fun to see you go through this and add another dimension to your life. If your child is even half as wonderful as you are, you'll be the luckiest mom in the world!
I love you~
Mom
What a cute little baby! I don't think she/he looks like an alien at all! Both Karen and my u/s pictures looked like we were carrying Voldemort ;)I know everyone's experiences can be different, but around the 16th week or so, I started feeling super great--tons of energy...I hope the same happens to you! Anyways, congrats to you and Scott! Babies are pretty amazing!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations--that is so exciting!
ReplyDeleteThis is just so fantastic! Isn't timing incredibly strange, sometimes? Makes me wonder!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations and all the best to you all. Isn't pregnancy the time when you can enjoy a lot of stuff and not ever have to feel guilty about it? :)
Congratulations! I'm so so excited for you! I can't believe we've got almost the exact same due date! I found out August 14th. :D
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, congratulations Trish! That is such wonderful news. Wishing you a wonderful pregnancy. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteCongrats, congrats! This the best news & I am so, so happy for you. Can't wait to see pictures - of your growing tummy & the baby!
ReplyDeleteCongrats Trish!! That's fantastic news! I went through three years of trying and many cysts as well so I know how that goes. What a wonderful blessing!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats Trish! What happy news after such a difficult year!
ReplyDeletewow, this is such exciting news, congratulations Trish.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Trish! Sorry this is so late as I haven't been blogging as much and totally missed this post until I started going through my google reader. I am so happy for you and can't wait to hear more news along the way!
ReplyDeleteCongrats Trish! I was so happy to read this - you both deserve the best. Sorry I didn't see it sooner but I was away from my blog for over a month. I wish you all the best with your pregnancy and I can't wait till the little one is born. Hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteI go away for the weekend and come back to find I have missed such exciting news. I am so pleased for you. I am sorry you had to go through so much to reach this spot but you will be blessed with a beautiful child.
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