Of course, I type this at 3:30 on Monday morning because I couldn't sleep. Every time I turned in bed my hips crack and ache from the weight, but I probably would have been fine if my bladder hadn't gotten the best of me. Yesterday while brushing my teeth my entire cereal breakfast came back up, before that I had a complete meltdown after the original breakfast I cooked was a disaster, when I've been sitting down for a while and get up I do a combination of a crab shuffle and old woman walk until my back straightens out, my feet and hands (and face!) are suddenly swollen no thanks to our 80+ degree weather, I can't tie my shoes without gasping for air, every day chores are so exhausting I can't stand it, I'm frantically trying to work through my email at work in fear that things will fall through the cracks while I'm on leave, I've slept a few nights in the LaZBoy to alleviate my acid reflux, it's not physically possible to walk any slower and actually move forward, I have the most active baby in utero and fear what that means when she finally arrives, driving hurts especially when I have a rump or a heel under my ribs, but right now I just wish I were in bed sleeping as I know I'll pay all day at work today.
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| 35.5 Weeks (last update at 30.5) |
These are all small complaints, though, for a pregnancy that has been wonderful. The other day I was driving home from work on a particularly beautiful and warm day. I had the windows rolled down and was blasting and singing along to Amos Lee. I just started sobbing because my heart was so full of love and happiness. I think about all the pain and tears I experienced last year after the miscarriage and then the failure to get pregnant in the months afterwards and all of that pain has melted away. Even though I joke that this baby doesn't ever stop moving, I love feeling her wiggle around and know she'll be a spunky one. I simply cannot wait to meet her and get to know her outside of the womb. And I cannot wait for my husband to meet this baby girl that I already feel I've gotten to know a little bit and see him grow into the role of father.
The past couple of weeks have really slowed down for me. I sometimes feel guilty for being lazy as I sit on the couch catching up with my Real Simple magazine (December issue--if you must know how seldom I allow myself the lazy pleasure). For the first time in my life I've started to ignore some of the "shoulds" and just focused on being. It's strange and sometimes I feel a bit restless, but mostly I'm too exhausted to do much of anything anyway. I've been watching a ridiculous amount of TV with Scott, which I don't typically like, but then I remind myself that these days are becoming more and more limited. As are my days of it just being the two of us--something that is exciting and sad at the same time.
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| Scott and Trish - 32 weeks |
When I'm not just being, I'm busy nesting. Trying to declutter my home, trying to get everything ready in the baby's room even though she won't sleep up there for at least several weeks, trying to get in as many homecooked meals as I can, trying to organize and simplify now while I still can. I think going through these motions has helped me avoid the big Freak Out that for some reason still hasn't happened to me. I know I should be anxious and a nervous wreck that this baby could come at any time, but the Freak Out just hasn't come yet. This pregnancy has made me strangely relaxed and I wonder if maybe the anxiety just won't come--until that baby girl arrives that is.
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| No, baby's name is not really Baby Billy Sue |
Oh, I could keep tying and typing. Even though I knew this would happen I really regret not keeping a better journal of the pregnancy. The things you put off for another day... But now it's 4:30 and Scott's alarm is bound to go off at any time. Will I even be able to get any more sleep before I'm supposed to wake up or will today be one of those days? I'm not ready yet, though, to wish away these days--the time before my life flips completely on its head and everything changes.
So...in closing, I'm asking you for your words of wisdom. Every pregnant woman complains about the unsolicited advice she receives, and I've received my share of sentiments that have caused me to raise my eyebrows, but now I'm soliciting. Go ahead...! Anything from the pratical (holy cow I don't even know how to bathe a baby!), to the emotional, to the time management of being a working mother, to life balance--to anything.
Before that clocks ticks down any further...goodnight! Er...or something.
You're going to do wonderful, Trish! Definitely take as much time for you right now as you can because you're right, after that baby is born, the next few years will be all about her. No on told me that when I had my first kid so it was kind of a shock.
ReplyDeleteMy only real parenting advice has to do with bottles. I don't know if you're even planning to ever feed the little one by bottle. If so - don't screw the ring on too tight. Keep it at fingertip tightness, or in other words, turn it until it just barely isn't loose. If you close it too tight, the baby gets more air than milk and will end up gassy, crying, and miserable. It also helps if you pull the nipple out of her mouth every few seconds to let the air balance in the bottle go back to normal. Our boys screamed bloody murder when they got gassy and they didn't like to burp, so that tip from my nurse mother-in-law was a lifesaver for us!!
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry you're feeling so uncomfortable now. *hugs hugs hugs* If it makes you feel any better, I would have loved to go through that final month of pregnancy but never got to as I was induced early with every one of them. One of those "the grass is always greener" things, I guess.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I can say is that I was clueless, too. But you know what--for me that first year or two was by far the easiest! I guess it sounds silly to say that it all just comes naturally, but in some ways it really does. And you're going to find that you come to know your daughter better than anyone else. So while advice can be very helpful at times, don't forget to trust your own gut when it comes to your little sweetie.
I don't have any really good advice, but congratulations and I'm sure you will do just fine. :)
ReplyDeleteThe best advice I got was that it takes 6 weeks for everything and everyone to settle in. Accept that it takes six weeks for your body to really recover, and six weeks to get to really know your baby. Then, you'll look up one day and everything will be great. Don't judge anything based on the first 6 weeks.
ReplyDeleteGood luck and enjoy!
I'm so excited for you and so happy for you. What a blessing to live so close to your mom and Brooke, they will be such a help.
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to meet the little darling!
Sorry you're uncomfortable, but yay for a good and healthy pregnancy! I think it's great that you're taking more time to relax and enjoy quiet times by yourself as well with just you and Scott.
ReplyDeleteThe only advice I can offer is try not to worry about little things after baby arrives, but just enjoy her being tiny and cuddle as much as possible! I was so worried about trying to get on a schedule and not doing things that would cause issues down the road (like putting her in my bed to nap with me when she wouldn't sleep in her crib). Go with the flow of when she needs to eat, sleep, etc. Cuddle with her in bed. Stare at her for long periods of time until your eyes tear up with how sweet she is. :) That's all I've got! You'll definitely figure it out when she's here!
P.S. If you have questions after she's here, you can always call or e-mail me! Not that I'll know the answer, but I can do my best!
Wow what a lot of feelings you're having now. I must say I'd change places with you in a heart beat. Do cuddle her alot, and if you need to take her to your bed so she can sleep, remember she's been with you almost a whole year, it's not so strange to want to stay close. My guys are men now and if I could turn back time boy! I still cuddle them when their girlfriends aren't looking, and just enjoy. Go with the flow, listen to what people say, but do your own thing, you'll know. Can't wait to see her.
ReplyDeleteTrish, you are just beautiful and I think you are so wise to spend the time with your husband, just the two of you hanging out - watching TV and such. Babies are great, but I will tell you, your life will never be the same again. Your marriage will never be the same again. And that's a good thing. We love our one and only daughter so much - she's now 28.
ReplyDeleteThe advice I read in the other comments was all good. I guess the one thing I'll share is that everyone has to deal with some of the less fun aspects of child rearing - colic, potty training, tantrums, the TEEN years and attitude - but....I firmly believe that you won't have to deal with every single one in a negative way. Your kid may have one negative behavior (mine had horrible colic), but she won't have something else that a friend's kid will (like not quite getting the potty-training idea). If you have tough time with one phase of life, other phases will go more smoothly. That's been my experience anyway. Try to just be as mellow as you can with all of them - hard to do for some of us anxious ones (and I'm an anxious one for sure).
Big hugs! My little girl grew up and became a labor & delivery nurse and she says she works in the happiest place in the hospital. You take care of yourself and that sweet one!
Don't sweat the small stuff - instinct will take over once the baby is here. My own piece of advice is it's okay to let things (like housework) go, but keep up with your laundry.
ReplyDeleteIronically, I just finished reading "The Girl in the Green Raincoat," in which the protagonist, Tess Monaghan, is pregnant and worried about how the baby will affect her life and her relationship with her husband. And those worries and how she resolves them run all through this short book by Laura Lippman. In the end, though she remembers most the advice by one of the policemen she talks to, who assures her that parenthood will be her greatest joy.
ReplyDeleteThe second that she comes out, you will unknowingly step into a maternal role that you didn't know existed. It is amazing what you will just know once she is here.
ReplyDeleteShe will not die from crying. Even though it isn't always pleasant to listen to it is sometimes their way of expressing themselves. There were plenty of times that I put Emma in her crib screaming because I couldn't listen to it, and I needed to get away for a few minutes. It's okay to remove yourself from them for a little bit because them crying might be feeding off of your frustration. Emma was colicy, and the only way that she would sleep was in her swing (all night long). It is probably not the most practical thing, but it made for a happier baby. The first bath was scary, but it doesn't have to be perfect. You will get the hang of things, and start to feel what is best for your child.
DON'T make a habit of letting that baby sleep with you because you don't want her sleeping with you when she is older. (Like Nick!)
And the letters look like they turned out super cute!
ReplyDeleteI'm not a mother myself but I can tell you what I wish I'd done differently when my nieces were babies...
ReplyDeleteI wish I would've slowed down more and simply spent time with them. I'm talking holding and rocking and just simply enjoying them as they were. I know it's not practical and not possible but...
Enjoy those simple, sweet, cuddly moments. They are the best moments ever created.
My sister, the mother of my nieces, would tell you that the most important thing you can do is get them on a schedule as soon as possible. Of course, I have no idea how she did it but I will ask her when she gets back for any tips.
And finally, a word of wisdom from the best mother ever (mine) -- Remember when they're little, you have little problems; when they're bigger, you have bigger problems.
I've never known if that was advice or a curse...
You and Scott are going to be amazing parents, my dear. I know you'll enjoy every lovely, crazy, chaotic minute of it and that you'll do just fine!
cjh
*Amanda - I can't say I'm ready for my life to be completely about baby, but I am trying to prepare for it! ;) And thank you for the bottle advice. This is exactly the kind of practical advice I'm looking for!!
ReplyDelete*Debi - For all the complaints and the zombie feeling I'm experiencing today, I've loved being pregnant. I can't ask for more than that and I'm not wishing away the time (yet!). ;) And thank you for the words of wisdom--they mean a lot.
*Trisha - Life always marches forward, doesn't it--whether you're ready for it or not! Thanks for the congrats.
*Raidergirl3 - Thank you for the advice! I'm grateful to have 12 weeks off of work, so it sounds like I'll be able to have at least half the time with everything going "better" ;)
*Rae - All these babies, huh? I think Little Miss will be Great-Grandbaby #55! And I'm terribly lucky to have mom and Brooke so close--will be wonderful.
*Laura - I keep reminding myself that so many work women have gone early--Melissa at 37, you at 38--could be any time. And thank you for the advice--I know sometimes it will be frustrating and difficult not knowing the answers or not having everything go as planned, but hopefully Scott will help keep me grounded. And I'm sure I'll have questions!! You seem to have really settled into motherhood wonderfully.
*Irene - LOL--I'm a big ball of hormones. ;) Thank you for the advice--I love how many of you have said to just cuddle and love on her. They grow up too quickly, huh? And I'm sure your boys still enjoy a clandestine cuddle here and there.
*Kay - Thank you for your words of wisdom--I'm hoping some of the calmness and peace I've experienced in pregnancy will carry over to motherhood. Luckily my husband is much more grounded and patient than I am, so I'm counting on him to help be my rock! And its comforting to keep in mind that there will be positives amongst the negatives.
*Bermuda - LOL! Laundry, huh? Since poor Scott isn't allowed to touch the laundry I suspect I'll have to keep up with that one. But hopefully I can enlist some help for the house cleaning.
*Rhapsody - I'll have to look up Lippman's book! Sounds like I could probably relate to a lot of it right now. ;) But the greatest joy is something I'm counting on and looking forward to. I'm sure I have no idea...!
*Brooke - If baby girl turns out half as good as Emma I'll be a lucky mother. I know I'll be calling on you a lot for advice!! I can't say I'm looking forward to the screaming, but hopefully I'll be able to take it all in stride. And I laughed out loud at your comment about Nick. ;)
*CJ - I'll be blessed to have three months off work and I look forward to spending as much time getting to know that baby girl as possible. I've been told about the scheduling and that's one thing I'm a little worried about, but Scott and I are pretty routine people so hopefully we'll be able to pass that nature on to baby girl. Thank you for the advice and the wisdom!
You look so beautiful Trish! After the baby's here and you can't get a moment in to take a quick shower, either put her in her carseat and take her in the bathroom with you or let her take a shower with you. I had to learn that the hard way when I was so desperate for a shower but the baby wouldn't stop crying or go to sleep. Soon it became a habit and they were used to getting in the shower with me!
ReplyDeleteAnother tip: take pleasure in the present. Sometimes as mothers we look so forward to the future when our babies can do the next milestone that we forget to just be glad about where they're at. With my youngest, I took pleasure in him at every stage because he's probably my last child. I wish it's something I did with my oldest.
Ignoring the shoulds and just being is something we all should do more often, I suspect. I can't stop smiling/wanting to give you a hug at the mental image of you singing in the car and then crying from happiness. I'm in no position to give you advice, but I wanted to send you my love. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear things aren't all that fantastic at the moment. Shall we say it's natural? What if pregnancy was too easy, you wouldn't want the baby to be born!
ReplyDeleteNow, your body AND your mind are working towards that very special moment.
And about taking lazy time - do it! This is your last chance for several years to have some me-time (in which you don't even have to worry about your kids, which you will do when you have me-time in the future).
Take it easy and all will be well.
LOL...it's like revisiting the last month of pregnancy for my wife. Can't sleep, terrible heart burn, can't move, always eating. Glad to have a baby that moves in utero to let you know it's still there. Such memories.
ReplyDeleteYou guys are going to love being parents. I can't even begin to describe how much I love it. It's life changing. You'll see. ;-)
Pax
No sage advice from me, but I wish you the best! My advice for everyone is to always take time for you, and this seems to be an appropriate time for that advice too:-)
ReplyDeleteAw Trish, this post really opened the flood gates for me. My girls were born at 31 weeks and it was the biggest shock I ever had. But they pulled through with gusto. If the baby should come a little earlier, it is them telling you it is there time to be born. My big freak out actually arrived after they were born when I knew I would take them home. Once I got them home though it was wonderful. Best advice I can offer, is always havea sleep when they sleep and enjoy your last few weeks as a couple.
ReplyDeleteOne month! SO exciting. I remember having lots of these same emotions the last couple weeks..excitement, nervousness, anxiety, impatience, etc., etc. You will do great. Like Brooke said, as soon as that baby comes out, you immediately enter mom mode.
ReplyDeleteNow some advice - Rebecca told me this & I appreciated it...you are NOT a bad mom if you send your baby to the nursery in the hospital. Labor & delivery is exhausting and will need to get rest & sleep, and while you have nurses there to help, take advantage.
Make the nurses teach you how to swaddle! They do it so tight & it is hard to replicate it on your own. Hudson broke out of his so quickly and I wished I learned how the nurses did it so well.
And you know about the mesh panties, right? Take some home. Seriously.
Oh & you look great, too! :)
ReplyDeleteAnd just stare & cuddle with her every chance you get!! I miss those newborn days already!
You look great! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm not a mom, so I am no help there. I know nothing about babies, so I am sure that when my time finally comes I am going to be freaking out. :) BUT! Read to the baby often! Make a book lover out of her!
I am not a mom, I am a nanny. So my perspective on babies is a little bit different. I have more advice for when your baby is older, around 2. With infants... you know your baby best. If you want me to always let your baby sleep on my lap because that's what you do, heck, you are paying me, so I will do it! Be sure of yourself and your baby, because no one knows your baby like you do! That being said, I always loved a mom who listened when I informed her of something about her baby. 90% of the time mom noticed, but that 10% really matters.
ReplyDeleteYou will be an awesome mom! I know what you mean by crying because everything is wonderful. I can't wait to see pictures of the lovely little one :)
I know how you feel, Trish, and I want to tell you what you've been through are absolutely normal! ;) But trust me, you're doing great and in no time you'll be holding your little sweetie in your hands. :)
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, have a lot of rest and all will go smoothly. *Hugs*
You look wonderful!!
ReplyDeleteIn the early weeks, "go with the flow" is the best thing to do. Don't worry about schedules until later.
I have three kids (15, 12, 10) and I still remember doing nothing but gaze at them while they were sleeping in their baby carseat/carriers. There is nothing more peaceful. And, of course, definitely nap when your baby naps if you feel you need the sleep (and you will).
This is such a sweet post, Trish :) It brought a tear to my eye :') You are just such an ADORABLE pregnant woman. And you're going to be such a fantastic mommy :)
ReplyDeleteMy first piece of advice would be to do what works for you and your baby. With my first I was afraid to screw up so I would be swayed by what others would say. All babies are different and your instincts as a mom will help you know what to do.
ReplyDeleteOne other thing I wish I'd known with my first is that babies need a decent sleep schedule. Not enough sleep for a baby is a vicious cycle of missed naps and poor sleeping at night. I read quite a few different books on helping babies sleep and I don't think any of them were perfect, but they all helped me form a plan that worked well for me. You'll figure it out. Good luck!
*Vasilly - Great tips for both the showering and the taking pleasure in the moment. You're right that we sometimes get caught up in what's next--I've even been trying to do the same with the pregnancy--just enjoy today rather than anticipate the next step. You learn with each one, huh!
ReplyDelete*Nymeth - Thank you Ana. I'm sure the hormones play a big role in the tears but there have been several times when I've been so overwhelmed with bliss I just have to let the emotion out somehow! It's a feeling I wish on everyone at some point in their lives.
*Leeswammes - Good point about the easy pregnancy and not wanting the baby to be born. I think I felt that in the second trimester the most. ;) Now I'm getting ready. Thank you for the confirmation that it's OK to be lazy right now!
*Paxton - It's one of those things that you tell yourself over and over--will love it, can't wait, can't describe it, but I don't think you ever really know until the baby arrives. Thanks for the well wishes.
*Nomadreader - Thanks for the advice. I think taking time for self is also important when the baby arrives. I can't begin to understand how my life will revolve around the little one--I'd like to hold on to some "self" as well.
*Vivienne - Thanks for the napping advice--I've heard it before and definitely plan to nap when the baby naps. Try to avoid feelings that I need to madly clean or catch up on blogging/reading and just sleep! LOL. And how wonderful that your girls are so healthy--both my sisters-in-law have twins and its nerve-wracking when they come so early.
*Elise - Thanks for the advice on using the nursery. Brooke did the same and its something I'm considering. And yes, I've heard how glorious both the mesh panties and the pads are--I plan to swipe as much as I can. ;) Hopefully one day all of our kiddos will be able to get together and meet!!
*Allie - Even if I have to read Ulysses to that baby girl I do plan to read to her. It's one of the things I look forward to the most!! And I think freaking out is natural. ;)
*Lu - Thank you for the advice and even though everyone talks about maternal instincts I don't think a mother can know everything all the time. And happy tears are great, aren't they?
*Melody - Ha! Trying to get all the rest I can! But, also trying to chip away at the stacks of paperwork and mess around the house here and there. ;) Thanks for the well-wishes Melody!
*Valerie - Thank you for the advice--going with the flow will be tough but it something I hope to be able to achieve. Luckily I'll have some family close by that can help with some of the things that fall to the wayside! ;) And a peaceful baby? Heavenly! Thanks for visiting.
*Chris - Well, I was crying when I was writing this so I'm glad someone was crying with me. ;) Thank you Chris for your sweet words.
*Kristi - Sleep cycle and routine are something I'm definitely going to need--especially after the first couple of months when I go back to work! I do have a book I need to read but will probably be seeking out others to get a rounded opinion. And I appreciate the sentiment to not take others' advice! You're right that every baby is different.
Motherhood is simply the most glorious thing I have ever experienced. I can not wait for you to experience it too. The second you see your brand new daughter, life will change for you. Not just change for the better, but for the best.
ReplyDeleteI am a little bit of an anxious person too, but for some reason, I am not when it comes to my role as a mom. I really feel it is important to kind of let things go with the flow. I do let my kids sleep with me(they wont want to forever!), sometimes we have cookies and milk for lunch. Sometimes we stay in our jammies all day. You only get one childhood, and I want my kids to remember it being a great one, with lots of laughter and love. Not perfection and a yelling mother.
There is only one time that they are an infant, only once are they a toddler, so with all of the struggles, "this too shall pass".
Love you so much! I can't believe she will be #55! That is insane! Is anyone else pregnant that you know of?
I have very little baby experience, so I'm not much help. (However, I haven't even opened the Real Simple December issue yet, so if that makes you feel better, there you go!)
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy for you guys and your soon-to-arrive little one. I wish you only good things, time together, and plenty of joy!
No advice as I don't have any children but just wanted to say that you look so wonderful! I cannot even imagine what it must be like just waiting for the day. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteNo adivice as I have no kids, but I am sure you will do fine. Definitely enjoy this alone time with the hubby and get your hospital bag packed girlie :)
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for you! That picture of your belly is adorable!!!
ReplyDeleteYou have such a healthy and great attitude and probably don't need any advise. Except, prepare now. I had a very healthy pregnancy and went to my 37 week appt. and my blood pressure had spiked and they put me in the hospital 2 days later when it didn't improve. Just be ready.
Your daughter is a lucky girl :)
You look amazing! :-)
ReplyDeleteSo much great advice here already... I would say trust that whatever you do will be the right thing for you and your baby. There is so much conflicting information out there, so many decicions, what you choose will work for your character(s) and family structure. And also, accept that sometimes you'll be exhausted and it'll be hard and remember that you're not the only one who has those thoughts. All occasional negative thoughts mean is that you're human - a baby is a real shock to the system!
You'll be great!! :-)
You're going to be a great mom!! I wish someone would have told me not to second guess my decisions. Mothers really do have a natural instinct and if Ethan coughs and I wanna rush him to the doctor, they better let me =)
ReplyDeleteAnd stockpile the diapers and formula. If people want to ask you what you need, tell them. For Ethan's first few holidays that required gifts, I requested no toys or clothes because I received enough at the shower, so they all got diapers and formula....that really came in handy =)
The joys of pregnancy...LOL! I've got to say though that my youngest was my most active (I swear it felt like he never stopped moving in my stomach) but he is the most relaxed, best baby ever! Seriously! I didn't have a clue how to take care of a newborn with my first child but the main thing to remember is that everything works itself out. Parenting is a learning experience and all that good stuff :) You'll be a great Mom!
ReplyDeleteSit. Watch tv. Snuggle with Scott. Enjoy your chance to relax and the time to be just the two of you. As wonderful as being a parent is, there will be days when you long for the time when it was just the two of you. You will be a great mom--you are so ready! The first few days are exhausting. Your body is so worn out and your emotions will be all over the place. You will not be able to look at the baby without be astounded by how much you love someone who only just arrived in your life. But her life has just changed entirely as well, and it may take her a few days to get used to the noise, and the light and not having your heartbeat to calm her all of the time. Let Scott help. Make Scott help! I made my hubby give my firstborn his first bath. He couldn't feed him but he could bond in that way. And diaper duty should so be a shared duty!
ReplyDelete*Michelle - I love your philosophy of going with the flow and hope that I can accomplish the same as well. I know I'll have to enlist the help of Scott a lot for that as he's a much more relaxed person than I am, but I really want to make the best of this special time! Other than you and me, no babies that I know of!! I'm sure it's only a matter of time. ;)
ReplyDelete*Erin - LOL--it does make me feel better that you haven't opened your December issue of Real Simple yet. It's a good one. ;) And thanks for the wishes!
*Iliana - I'm trying to take deep breaths and take one day at a time. At this point that's all I can do! ;) Trying to keep life simple.
*Jenny Girl - Hospital bag is half packed! And, yes, trying to enjoy not only time with my husband but also time alone!
*Stacybuckeye - Wow--that's amazing about your blood pressure! But wonderful that Gage is such a healthy and beautiful boy. I'm not sure I'll ever be prepared, but I'm trying to take little steps every day.
*Joanna - I appreciate the advice--my sister reassures me of the same thing. That things will be frustrating but it's OK and it's OK to not be positive all the time. Just to step back and regroup.
*Kristina - Great advice on telling people what you want! I had a shower with a group of my parents' friends and only one person bought me non-clothing gift and then apologized for being boring. But, what you need is what you need!
*Samantha - Glad to hear your youngest is a relaxed baby. I've heard that how they are in the womb is how they'll be out and I'm scared that this little girl will go go go! ;)
*Lisa - Thank you for all of the sage advice, Lisa. Making Scott help will be tough for me as I always want to help or take control, but I'm just going to have to force myself to let him do some of the work! And I'll miss the alone time but know that our lives will be enriched in ways I can't imagine.
Cannot wait!!!
You're looking wonderful, and I'm so happy for you!
ReplyDeleteHonestly, the best advice I can give is to enjoy every single minute because the time flies by. The Girl was an itty bitty baby one minute, and 10 years old the next. :)